help for parents and teens. Each agency listed here should have a viable web page of services at free or reduced rates. Certainly they will give you a good place to start. Please right click your mouse on the title of the agency.
"... for (in a democracy) it is not enough to allow dissent, rather... we must demand it!" Robert Kennedy 1966. All material appearing in this hole are offered in the public domain and may be reproduced. However, this publication may not be reproduced for a fee without permission. This blog is not for profit. WE ARE NOT AFILIATED WITH ANY SCHOOL DISTRICT, LABOR UNION, SCHOOL BOARD, or COLLECTIVE. WE RESERVE THE RIGHT TO INSULT THEM ALL! Proudly, we are NOT Owned by Rupert Murdoch or the CTA!
Friday, September 25, 2009
Outside Agencies that Can Help
help for parents and teens. Each agency listed here should have a viable web page of services at free or reduced rates. Certainly they will give you a good place to start. Please right click your mouse on the title of the agency.
Depart. of Health Services - Free Health Care for children.
Child Protective Services (CPS)
C.H.A.D.D. An organization for parents of children suffering with one of the three types of A.D.D
Free and reduced school meal program - All parents should apply!
Food Stamps
W.I.C
Free Health Care for Your Children
S.A.R.A - Teen suicide prevention ORGANZATION
Foster Youth Guide book - RIGHTS AND AIDE FOR FOSTER KIDS
Medi-Cal - MEDICAL INSURANCE
Homeless shelters -THOSE THAT REMAIN AFTER THE CUTS
Family Care Centers: Dept. of Public Health
Rape Crisis Center - RIVERSIDE & CONFIDEDENTIAL
Loma Linda Medical Center - LOW COST MEDICAL
Operation School Bell- IF FUNDED, A PLACE WHERE CHILDREN CAN GET CLOTHES FOR SCHOOL
Monday, September 21, 2009
Friday, September 18, 2009
Census numbers show Inland poverty, food-stamp use on the rise
By DAVID OLSON
The Press-Enterprise
New Census figures on poverty are another grim reminder of the toll the severe recession is taking on Inland lives.
Nearly 21 percent of San Bernardino County's children lived in poverty in 2008, up from just over 16 percent in 2007, according to the Census estimates released Tuesday. The child-poverty rate in Riverside County was 17 percent. Food-stamp enrollment was up 48 percent in Riverside County and 30 percent in San Bernardino County.
Rick Wells is not reflected in those 2008 statistics, which were computed when the Inland area's unemployment rate was still rising. Wells, 20, lost his $15-an-hour construction job in March 2008 but was able to piece together enough work to avoid government assistance -- until Tuesday, when he sat in a crammed state Department of Public Social Services office in Moreno Valley clutching his food-stamp application. It's kind of embarrassing to ask the government for help when I know I'm very capable of working," Wells said. Like countless other Inland residents, Wells has applied for job after job but he says there's nothing. Wells has been homeless for two weeks, after he lost a live-in job helping a woman with household tasks. Her husband returned home from the hospital to assist her. Sometimes Wells sleeps behind a Moreno Valley liquor store. Other times he sleeps on a park bench. He wants to join the Marines.
"It's a place to sleep and get money and food," Wells said.
He knows he might get sent to Iraq or Afghanistan. But it's better than being homeless and jobless. "You can die on the street," Wells said. Wells was waiting with dozens of others. They filled the room's blue plastic chairs and lined much of the wall space.
Javier Gutiérrez, 66, lost his $8.50-an-hour security-guard job in February 2008. The Moreno Valley man was applying Tuesday to renew his food-stamp benefits. Olivia Muñoz makes $8.50 an hour at a bowling-alley snack bar, but she can't get more than 20 hours a week of work. With her $500-a-month rent for a room in a Moreno Valley apartment, it's not enough to buy food. She was in line in front of Gutiérrez, waiting to pick up a food-stamp card she had been approved for.
Muñoz, 24, studied for three years at a Los Angeles vocational school to become a dental-laboratory technician. But she can't find a lab job. She is still paying off $6,000 in school loans.
Last year, 4.3 percent of Riverside County residents and 7 percent of San Bernardino County residents relied on food stamps, according to the estimates from the Census' American Community Survey, which queries 3million people each year. More recent county figures are unavailable (But likely to be much higher).
Statewide, 23 percent more people received food stamps in June 2009 than in June 2008, according to preliminary data from the federal Department of Agriculture, which administers the food-stamp program. The average recipient nationwide gets $133 in monthly food assistance.
That money sometimes runs out before the end of the month, said Beverly Earl, San Bernardino County director for family and community services for Catholic Charities San Bernardino/Riverside. So they come to the organization's food pantries. They ask for toilet paper, deodorant, soap and other nonfood items not covered by food stamps, Earl said.
Census numbers show Inland poverty, food-stamp use on the rise
By DAVID OLSON
The Press-Enterprise
New Census figures on poverty are another grim reminder of the toll the severe recession is taking on Inland lives.
Nearly 21 percent of San Bernardino County's children lived in poverty in 2008, up from just over 16 percent in 2007, according to the Census estimates released Tuesday. The child-poverty rate in Riverside County was 17 percent. Food-stamp enrollment was up 48 percent in Riverside County and 30 percent in San Bernardino County.
Rick Wells is not reflected in those 2008 statistics, which were computed when the Inland area's unemployment rate was still rising. Wells, 20, lost his $15-an-hour construction job in March 2008 but was able to piece together enough work to avoid government assistance -- until Tuesday, when he sat in a crammed state Department of Public Social Services office in Moreno Valley clutching his food-stamp application. It's kind of embarrassing to ask the government for help when I know I'm very capable of working," Wells said. Like countless other Inland residents, Wells has applied for job after job but he says there's nothing. Wells has been homeless for two weeks, after he lost a live-in job helping a woman with household tasks. Her husband returned home from the hospital to assist her. Sometimes Wells sleeps behind a Moreno Valley liquor store. Other times he sleeps on a park bench. He wants to join the Marines.
"It's a place to sleep and get money and food," Wells said.
He knows he might get sent to Iraq or Afghanistan. But it's better than being homeless and jobless. "You can die on the street," Wells said. Wells was waiting with dozens of others. They filled the room's blue plastic chairs and lined much of the wall space.
Javier Gutiérrez, 66, lost his $8.50-an-hour security-guard job in February 2008. The Moreno Valley man was applying Tuesday to renew his food-stamp benefits. Olivia Muñoz makes $8.50 an hour at a bowling-alley snack bar, but she can't get more than 20 hours a week of work. With her $500-a-month rent for a room in a Moreno Valley apartment, it's not enough to buy food. She was in line in front of Gutiérrez, waiting to pick up a food-stamp card she had been approved for.
Muñoz, 24, studied for three years at a Los Angeles vocational school to become a dental-laboratory technician. But she can't find a lab job. She is still paying off $6,000 in school loans.
Last year, 4.3 percent of Riverside County residents and 7 percent of San Bernardino County residents relied on food stamps, according to the estimates from the Census' American Community Survey, which queries 3million people each year. More recent county figures are unavailable (But likely to be much higher).
Statewide, 23 percent more people received food stamps in June 2009 than in June 2008, according to preliminary data from the federal Department of Agriculture, which administers the food-stamp program. The average recipient nationwide gets $133 in monthly food assistance.
That money sometimes runs out before the end of the month, said Beverly Earl, San Bernardino County director for family and community services for Catholic Charities San Bernardino/Riverside. So they come to the organization's food pantries. They ask for toilet paper, deodorant, soap and other nonfood items not covered by food stamps, Earl said.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Major mood swing at our public schools
Massachusetts Charter Decisions Made to Rescue Governor from “Political Cul de Sac”
It’s a complex story out of Massachusetts with a simple payoff: The state secretary of education wants charter school authorizations to be based on political considerations, and not on their educational merits.It begins with reporter Patrick Anderson of the Gloucester Daily Times using a public records request to find a February 5 e-mail from Secretary of Education Paul Reville, Gov. Deval Patrick’s school adviser, to Education Commissioner Mitchell Chester. Gov. Patrick, like many other governors, found religion in charter schools soon after the Obama administration made them a centerpiece of Race to the Top funding. But which charter school applications would be approved, and which rejected, seems to be less of an academic concern and more of a matter of political pressure. Here’s the full text of the e-mail:
Mitchell,There has been plenty of editorializing about the e-mail itself, so I’ll just add a roundup of links and not add to it myself…
Hope all’s well and warm in AZ. I appreciated our talk today and your openness and flexibility. This situation presents one of those painful dilemmas. In addition to being a no-win situation, it forces us into a political cul de sac where we could be permanently trapped. Our reality is that we have to show some sympathy in this group of charters or we’ll get permanently labeled as hostile and they will cripple us with a number of key moderate allies like the Globe and the Boston Foundation. Frankly, I’d rather fight for the kids in the Waltham situation, but it sounds like you can’t find a solid basis for standing behind that one. I’m not inclined to push Worcester, so that leaves Gloucester. My inclination is to think that you, I and the Governor all need to send at least one positive signal in this batch, and I gather that you think the best candidate is Gloucester. Can you see your way clear to supporting it? Would you want to do the financial trigger even in light of likely stimulus aid?
Thanks for not seeing this as an independence issue. It really is a matter of positioning ourselves so that we can be viable to implement the rest of our agenda. It’s a tough but I think necessary pill to swallow. Let’s discuss some more tomorrow.
Paul
“Editorial: Ed chief’s e-mail kills his, secretary’s and charter’s credibility”
“A political swirl on charter schools”
“Paul Reville must resign”
“Editorial: Charter chess”
…but I’m also intrigued by the press play involved. The story was broken by a small local newspaper, in which the state newspaper of record (the Globe) is mentioned as one of Gov. Patrick’s “key moderate allies” that has to be appeased by approving the Gloucester application. Today, while others are calling for Reville’s head, the Globe published a puff piece headlined, “Seeking calm after charter school storm: Education chief focuses on reform.”
My favorite paragraph was this one:
Ironically, it was Reville who raised the alarm about the politicization of education six years ago, when Governor Mitt Romney proposed restoring the position of education secretary. Placing a gubernatorial appointee in charge of education, as well as other proposed changes, Reville told legislators, could allow political considerations to creep into decisions that should be based on the best interests of children.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Deflation - American Style
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Three teachers robbed at gunpoint at a Moreno Valley elementary school
10:00 PM PDT on Wednesday, August 19, 2009
By JOHN ASBURYThe Press-Enterprise
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• Overview of legal issues for teachers |
Schools, once thought of as the safest place for children, are no longer the impenetrable havens they once were. In an era where school shootings, beatings, rapes and campus riots have become not only reality, but for some the norm, campus safety is no joke.
Some experts say schools have become too vigilant. Others say not enough. And school officials nationwide are erring on the side of caution, taking any and all threats the only way they can seriously.
In San Bernardino, two second-grade boys at North Park Elementary School, the same school where a first-grader brought an unloaded gun to school last month, were disciplined this week for making drive-by threats despite the fact both are too young to drive.
At Victor Valley High School, a 16-year-old girl reported she was jumped by a dozen other girls this week on the way to class.
In the Coachella Valley, a 10-year-old girl was raped in the bathroom of her elementary school, an attack that has rattled school officials and caused major changes in the campus' day-to-day operations.
Security cameras have gone up.
Visitors must sign in and out and wear badges.
Reports of terrorist threats, no matter how seemingly insignificant, are always investigated.
Herb Fischer, superintendent of schools for San Bernardino County, said any and all threats to student safety will be taken seriously by school officials. He also said schools are entering a new era of openness and striving to let parents know whenever dangerous or suspicious incidents occur.
"With heightened awareness of school-safety issues nationwide, I applaud them for that," Fischer said. "They are working to assure parents that our schools are being as open as possible and at the same time as cautious as possible."
A number of school safety summits sponsored by local legislators have been held in the past few months. The county Probation Office has developed a special gang-intervention plan and has made a commitment to work with all county schools, Fischer said.
Gary Underwood, police chief of the San Bernardino City Unified School District, said that since Columbine, the universal police doctrine for responding to a shooter on campus has changed.
In addition to surveillance cameras and controlling who has access to campus, stronger ties to school psychologists have been adopted in order to evaluate kids who may be troubled.
Controlling visitor access can be more difficult in Western states where schools are laid out in an open, sprawling fashion, as opposed to East Coast schools, which are typically built in one building with several levels.
Newer campuses typically have only one entry point, which is easier to police, as opposed to older schools, which may have several, Underwood said.
All threats taken seriously
Two second-grade boys at North Park Elementary School in San Bernardino were disciplined this week for making threats off-campus about a drive-by shooting, district officials said.
District spokeswoman Linda Hill confirmed the students were disciplined but would not elaborate, citing student privacy laws.
"We want our parents to know the district takes any threat to students' safety seriously," Hill said.
School board trustee Tony Dupre, speaking from a conference in Las Vegas, said he was unaware of any incidents at the elementary school but that the district must respond swiftly to threats under the Education Code, even if no weapon is seen.
"We cannot take that lightly, and the student will be ultimately recommended for suspension or possible expulsion," Dupre said.
The district can be held liable if threats are made, it takes no action, and then a student later acts on the threats.
Trustee Elsa Valdez, whose 6-year-old granddaughter attends North Park, said that as a veteran educator, the incident involving the two boys disturbed her.
"We had to look into it," she said. "I was concerned about it. And if there were rumors here like at Beaumont, I would probably keep my granddaughter home as well. As a parent or grandparent, you can't afford to take any chances."
At Victor Valley High, a 16-year-old student claimed she was jumped by a dozen or so other students on her way to class. The school resource officer is investigating the attack, said sheriff's spokeswoman Shelley Williams.
"The girl claimed she was jumped by other girls, and we've investigated," said Principal Elvin Momon. "So far, it looks like two girls fighting and nothing more."
The community's issues sometimes end up on campus and educators don't know what they will get on a daily basis, he said. Administrators and campus security must listen to and look for signs that are out of the ordinary and be prepared to respond to almost anything.
But if someone says they'll bring a gun onto campus, all bets are off, Momon said
"We're gonna react," he said.
Doing things differently
At Palm View Elementary in Coachella, no student goes to the restroom alone. A school employee has been dispatched to monitor the bathrooms full time.
A 10-year-old girl reported that she was sexually assaulted in a bathroom during school hours within the last 10 days, said Principal Maria Grieve. The Riverside County Sheriff's Department, which is investigating the incident, have no suspects yet.
"We have totally changed the way we do things," Grieve said. The school district is providing a full-time security guard for the campus. More yard supervisors have been added, and two will stay throughout the school day.
Parents have also volunteered to monitor the office door to ensure campus visitors sign in. That's in addition to it being monitored by a school secretary.
"There's been a shift in our society and parental responsibility almost to the point of us raising their children for them," Grieve said. "We have some parents who see us as a baby-sitting service. That's why more of them (children) are joining gangs. They want to belong to a family, and gangs become a substitute family."
Widespread campus violence
Violence has plagued the region's school campuses in the last six months, and it is not limited to shootings. Among the incidents was a fight at A.B. Miller High School in January in which 20 students were detained by police. Pacific High School has seen a spate of fighting since the beginning of the school year.
On Jan. 9, rumors kept roughly half of Beaumont High School's 1,500 students from coming to school after Internet-chatroom conversations indicated some students might bring firearms to school. A month later, shots were fired in a Beaumont neighborhood, causing a short lockdown at five nearby schools. Last month, Beaumont High School had its worst fight in recent history when a brawl broke out after a school assembly.
"We've become a society very afraid of violence, and it's hit close to home in this general area," said Karen Poppen, an assistant superintendent for the Beaumont Unified School District. "This is not just a school problem, it's a community problem. The question is how do we come together and how are we going to solve this?"
Last fall, the school district began working with Beaumont police, and training for district security officers has improved along with the level of security as a whole, Poppen said.
Earlier this month, interim Superintendent Nicholas Ferguson began holding community task force meetings to discuss issues like campus safety and student discipline.
Such problems are new for the district, Ferguson said.
"We're not accustomed to that kind of thing," he said.
Jerry Sturmer, director of educational safety and security for the Rialto Unified School District, said he has noticed more physicality between students and an increase in gang activity.
"We must react to violence," he said. " We need more resources, right now they are extremely limited."
Sturmer is frustrated about applying for a competitive five-year $500,000 state grant that would help with campus safety needs. Only 35 grants are being offered.
He is also angry that the federal government is cutting Safe and Drug-free schools money by 21 percent next year, money that pays for school resource officer anti-drug and anti-violence programs.
"Everybody says we need safe schools," he said. "But nobody wants to pay for it." (So District Superintendents feel it necessary to lie and cover up. In the end making it harder to obtain the very financial help they needed in the first place );I, Praetorian
Changing times
Ever since Columbine and 9/11, in some ways school officials have "sometimes overreacted," said Valdez, a professor of race and ethnic relations at Cal State San Bernardino.
"We've all been told all the signs were there, but no one paid attention," she said. "Are these kids going to go and carry out what they say they will? Who knows?"
Children are bombarded every day with violent images on television, movies and video games, and society is becoming desensitized to violence, Valdez said.
Times have changed.
Students in the '60s and '70s would get into trouble, fighting and drinking beer and smoking, but it was different from today, Valdez said.
"You didn't ever hear about the same type of vicious crimes like shootings and rapes," she said. "And there was never anybody getting raped in the bathroom."
Staff Writer Mike Cruz contributed to this report.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Monday, September 7, 2009
Teacher layoffs high despite stimulus aid
Teacher layoffs high despite stimulus aid
Published: Sept. 8, 2009 at 12:07 AMIn states with manageable budget deficits the stimulus money replaced revenue from local taxpayers, The New York Times reported Tuesday. In those states, many teachers and other school workers who had been laid off were hired back.
In states like Arizona, California and Georgia, however, teachers were laid off (the majority), shuffled into new districts (that i've never heard of in 14 years) or unfamiliar grade levels.
Education experts (Who and credentials please?) said many districts were forcing out strong teachers rather than those of limited effectiveness. Officials are dismissing teachers hired most recently because of union contracts or state laws that protect tenured teachers, Timothy Daily, president of the New Teacher Project, a non-profit organization, said.
He said few districts have accurate systems to evaluate teacher performance. (While the later is true, no body in government or education has come up with the magic system that is both valid, replicatable, and empirically sound. This is the solution to the problem of the day; that everyone claims to be the solution BUT nobody seems able to put forth a plan that will accurately measure teaching ability or progress YEAR AFTER YEAR. Please don't quote the president of some obscure "non-profit" organization with a questionable purpose. The federal prisons are full of them.) In my state, California, the CTA and its "associations" have ruined the profession's status and mishandled millions of dollars in dues. I am no fan. Many of my friends and darnN good teachers and counselors are headed for the unemployment line. ALL because the CTA's blood for money approach to negotiations as disseminated through the locals and in direct violation of their own guidelines for "Associates" to negotiate under. Even still theres no talk of pickets and CTA HAS NO STRIKE AND DEFENSE FUND. THEY ARE IN THE PROCESS OF RAISING ONE BY RAISING DUES TO NEARLY 100$ a month per member.
Still most usn
"Districts tend to make their problems worse by laying off good teachers and keeping bad ones," (How the hell does he know what the mitigating factors are? UPI has conveniently left them out.) Daly said.
Teacher layoffs also cause class sizes to jump (if their not replaced with low paid substitutes or interns). In Arizona up to 50 students are in many classrooms, and the norm for Los Angeles high schools this school year is 42.5 students per class.
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Schools in Some Southern States Are Giving Parents an 'Opt-Out' for Children Not to Hear Obama's Address to Students
"Let me know how you're doing. Write me a letter -- and I'm serious about this one -- write me a letter about ways you can help us achieve our goals. I think you know the address."
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Sunday, August 30, 2009
A group of laid off teachers brought a petition to the offices of the North Clackamas Education Association in Oregon protesting the union’s decision to accept job cuts over salary freezes – contrary, they claim, to the wishes of the members.
“We took a poll in the spring and they got our opinion and the majority said wage freeze,” said Monica Whiteley, who was laid off. "If I was her I would. So I would like them to look at the poll or honor it and have us look at the memo of understanding that is out there.”
SORRY I HAVE TO STEP IN HERE: A POLL ABOUT A POSSIBLITY INVOVING THE MOST GENERAL OF CIRCUMSTANCES AND AT A TIME WELL BEFORE THE THE TRUTH HAD LEAKED TO THE SURFACE? JUST BEFORE THE BOARD WAS SET TO VOTE ON IT? THIS STINKS OF CORUPTION AND IS HAPPENING AT LOCALS ALL OVER THE STATE. THIS IS CTA LEADERSHIP AT IT'S FINEST. SCREW THE LOWER MEMBERS FOR THE GOOD OF THE DYING (SOON TO RETIRE) ELEPHANTS. THIS WAS ATTEMPED IN MY CTA LOCAL. IT IS NOT A VOTE ON AN ACTION ITEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They said they feel the union hasn’t been listening or communicating. “I have felt like my voice has not been heard. I wasn’t asked was I OK with losing my job,” said Jenny Klassen, another laid off teacher.
This is Where Some of our Children Live Here - Maybe More Than We Think
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Saturday, August 29, 2009
Yes, The NEA is bloated and useless but...
On this, the NEA finds itself blowing hot air on the right side for its members (much to everyone's surprise) with regard to Obama's thinly veiled extension of the real purpose of NCLB through his project RTTP. (Race To Topple Progress) for disadvantaged children.
Though the goals espoused by Obama and Duncan are noble and tantamount toward getting the best education possible for all our children per tax dollar spent. Here’s the problem that nullifies the intention. NOBODY has yet to offer a valid, reliable and empirically sound way to use these test scores to measure teacher performance. We are forever complaining about the system, some can even identify what needs to change BUT WHERE are the blue prints to the solution? Not in RTTP. Each year a teacher has an entirely different set of kids with different backgrounds, temperaments, abilities, and disabilities. This Proposal insists that all children are the same and learn the same. Unfortuneatly for Obama, the very nature of a child (for whom public education is supposed to exist) muddies the waters of what all American’s expect: a fast simple solution. 8/30/09 9:30pm Praetorian
Six Years in the Making - An American Deflation
Saturday, August 29, 2009
An American Deflation
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Three teachers robbed at gunpoint at a Moreno Valley elementary school
10:00 PM PDT on Wednesday, August 19, 2009
By JOHN ASBURYThe Press-Enterprise
Education officials plan to re-evaluate security procedures after a gunman stormed a teacher's lounge at a Moreno Valley elementary school early Wednesday morning and robbed three teachers.
Officials want to enhance security procedures, including adding security patrols and closing certain access points to schools, said Superintendent Rowena Lagrosa, of the Moreno Valley Unified School District.
Box Springs Elementary School Principal Sam Stager said the man entered the open-access campus at 6:50 a.m., before students arrived. The man got into the teacher's lounge from a side or rear entrance where he robbed the teachers at gunpoint, demanding their purses, Stager said.
The women gave him their purses and he ran off the campus carrying a small handgun.
No one was injured and no arrests had been made as of Wednesday evening.
Police are not sure if he ran through the neighborhood or to a waiting car on Athens Drive, which runs past the school and homes, Stager said.
Moreno Valley police officers arrived within minutes after a school custodian called them but the suspect had already fled.
The three teachers were sent home for the day; substitutes took their places. The school district's crisis management counseling team was also called to the campus, Lagrosa said.
Parents were notified of the incident through an automated call system, Lagrosa said. Students were not told of the robbery and continued their normal school day.
"It's terrifying. We're a very close-knit community and school," Lagrosa said. "We're just in disbelief that this could happen. We want this to be a safe haven for our students and staff."
The Moreno Valley Educators Association was unavailable for comment.
Moreno Valley's elementary schools have a private security firm that patrols the area after hours until 6:30 a.m. One school resource officer patrols each of the district's middle schools and each high school has a full-time Moreno Valley police officer on campus.
Reach John Asbury at 951-763-3451 or jasbury@PE.com
This is the fight of our professional careers. Are You In or Out?
The Art of SETTING LIMITS, Its not as easy as it looks.
Art of Setting Limits Setting limits is one of the most powerful tools that professionals have to promote positive behavior change for their clients, students, residents, patients, etc. Knowing there are limits on their behavior helps the individuals in your charge to feel safe. It also helps them learn to make appropriate choices.
There are many ways to go about setting limits, but staff members who use these techniques must keep three things in mind:
Setting a limit is not the same as issuing an ultimatum.
Limits aren’t threats—If you don’t attend group, your weekend privileges will be suspended.
Limits offer choices with consequences—If you attend group and follow the other steps in your plan, you’ll be able to attend all of the special activities this weekend. If you don’t attend group, then you’ll have to stay behind. It’s your decision.
The purpose of limits is to teach, not to punish.
Through limits, people begin to understand that their actions, positive or negative, result in predictable consequences. By giving such choices and consequences, staff members provide a structure for good decision making.
Setting limits is more about listening than talking.
Taking the time to really listen to those in your charge will help you better understand their thoughts and feelings. By listening, you will learn more about what’s important to them, and that will help you set more meaningful limits.
Download The Art of Setting Limits
SYSTEMATIC USE OF CHILD LABOR
CHILD DOMESTIC HELP
by Amanda Kloer
Published February 21, 2010 @ 09:00AM PT
category: Child Labor
Wanted: Domestic worker. Must be willing to cook, clean, work with garbage, and do all other chores as assigned. No contract available, payment based on employer's mood or current financial situation. No days off. Violence, rape, and sexual harassment may be part of the job.
Would you take that job? No way. But for thousands of child domestic workers in Indonesia, this ad doesn't just describe their job, it describes their life.
A recent CARE International survey of over 200 child domestic workers in Indonesia found that 90% of them didn't have a contract with their employer, and thus no way to legally guarantee them a fair wage (or any wage at all) for their work. 65% of them had never had a day off in their whole employment, and 12% had experienced violence. Child domestic workers remain one of the most vulnerable populations to human trafficking and exploitation. And while work and life may look a little grim for the kids who answered CARE's survey, it's likely that the most abused and exploited domestic workers didn't even have the opportunity to take the survey.
In part, child domestic workers have it so much harder than adults because the people who hire children are more likely looking for someone easy to exploit. Think about it -- if you wanted to hire a domestic worker, wouldn't you choose an adult with a stronger body and more life experience to lift and haul and cook than a kid? If you could get them both for the same price, of course you would. But what if the kid was cheaper, free even, because you knew she wouldn't try and leave if you stopped paying her. Or even if you threatened her with death.
Congress Aims to Improve Laws for Runaway, Prostituted Kids
by Amanda Kloercategories: Child Prostitution, Pimping
Published February 20, 2010 @ 09:00AM PT
The prospects for healthcare reform may be chillier than DC weather, but Democrats in the House and Senate are turning their attention to another warmer but still significant national issue: the increasing number of runaway and throwaway youth who are being forced into prostitution. In response to the growing concerns that desperate, runaway teens will be forced into prostitution in a sluggish economy, Congress is pushing several bills to improve how runaway kids are tracked by the police, fund crucial social services, and prevent teens from being caught in sex trafficking. Here's the gist of what the new legislation is trying to accomplish:
Shelter: Lack of shelter is one of the biggest vulnerabilities of runaway and homeless youth. Pimps will often use an offer of shelter as an entree to a relationship with a child or a straight up trade for sex. In the past couple years, at least 10 states have made legislative efforts to increase the number of shelters, extend shelter options, and change state reporting requirements so that youth shelters have enough time to win trust and provide services before they need to report the runaways to the police. Much of the new federal legislation would make similar increases in the availability and flexibility of shelter options.
Police Reporting: Right now, police are supposed to enter all missing persons into the National Crime Information Center (NCIC) database within two hours of receiving the case. In reality, that reporting doesn't always get done, making it almost impossible for law enforcement to search for missing kids across districts. This hole is a big problem in finding child prostitution victims and their pimps, since pimps will often transport girls from state to state. The new bill would strengthen reporting requirements, as well as facilitate communication between the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the National Runaway Switchboard